With signing day past, I always do a Flock Talk that talks about the past, present, and future. But this week we learned something different. One of our members lost his wife and I cannot imagine the unbearable pain he must feel.
From a personal level Univera, I want to express my deepest sympathies and heartfelt care for you as a human being. Some may or may not remember, but he and I used to have some pretty 'heated' exchanges; but we found common ground. I have been on this site for darn near 20 years and there is one thing I have learned in that time: this really is like a family. Not a Brady Bunch, everyone is happy all the time family; more like a family where the brothers and sisters have many heated exchanges. Sometimes we agree, and sometimes we disagree. We have wildly different values and beliefs and those sometimes get exposed and we share even more of our personalities. Sometimes we simply rub each other the wrong way.
Yet we come together to celebrate, cheer, commiserate, and discuss our shared passions. In the heat of the moment, sometimes we can lose sight of those shared passions; we can act as if we are not all on the same page; cheering for a university. Often in Flock Talk I have mentioned that football is a sport that brings people together. I have talked about social capital and how football is a chance for us to escape many things and find some sense of commonality on a few Saturdays in the fall.
This site has given us a chance to share that all year round; to expand our passions to recruiting conversations, coaching changes, and all sports which might interest us.
This particular board was renamed after one of the best Duck fans we all ever knew; Dick Busby. FirstDuck. He passed away several years ago and we honor his memory today. His brother Steve (StillOldDuck) passed away last year. As someone with whom Univera was close, I know that this is a sort of double whammy to him. So, I want to make sure I take the time to thank Univera. While he may have his quirks - don't we all? We all know that I can be somewhat verbose at times and ramble on; but over time, most people have just sort of accepted this and I imagine they simply skip over my lengthy posts.
I want you to know Univera, that as a fellow Duck fan, I am here to support you in any way I can. I know that our other members want to do so as well. Please make sure to take comfort in our DSA family. We may be dysfunctional at times, but we are still a family and we will be here for you as much as we can. Through a family of Ducks, we can be strong. In our own crazy way, we love Univera as a Duck brother and we are all here for you bud.