It has been quite the crazy eight days for me.
Last Thursday, we discovered we needed to make a change at one of our locations - the current manager was not working out; good guy, but not cut out for the position. Having already been out to the location this past summer, I had become familiar with the area.
That night I took my wife to dinner to talk abut the potential. Why? The cost of a house is literally 1/3 of the house prices here. While we have really good equity and a pretty good lifestyle, my wife and I both work full time, and I also do this as a love. The new location would give her the chance to work part time at something she loves doing rather than something she has to do because it pays well and we rely on her income for our lifestyle.
Because our children are grown and on their own, we have some options that would not otherwise be available. I was surprised when she agreed to consider the possibility.
Over the last week or so, I have gone back and forth. I have lived in Oregon longer than my wife has been alive - literally. The thought of moving to the other side of the country is mind boggling and a bit scary. It's not like I am 35 and on the upside of my career. Despite that, we are looking at this as a chance to have an adventure; to see a lot more of the nation than we thought we could just five years ago.
I fly out Tuesday and will be gone for a minimum of three weeks. The company is flying my wife out next weekend to make sure she likes it - but she has done some research and this will likely only solidify her thoughts that this is something she wants to do. In all likelihood, I will return only when we have sold our house and it is time to move my wife to South Carolina.
I will still be in contact with everyone, and will still be able to cover the Ducks for DSA. Plus, this will give me plenty of opportunity to visit a bunch of stadiums I had once planned on seeing. This is both exciting and scary.
I think my dad passing this summer brings it even closer to home. My oldest son will be living on the east coast when he graduates from law school; my younger brother and his family live on the east coast and this is just one of those things my wife and I think is a great chance to have an adventure.
QD96 - looks like I will be much closer to your neck of the woods!